måndag 14 maj 2012

Happiness touches your Life in many Ways

Happiness touches your life in many ways over the years,
but nothing   compares with spending priority time with
someone you love and enjoy."
Blessings,
Your Angels

For further information about your angels,
go to www.Angelspeake.com
Have a wonderful week!
Trudy

Open the Lock on Heart after Heart

Dear ones, I gather you now and gently say to you that you open the lock on heart after heart, as you return the world to Love. You must do this for each other, as if everyone were your SoulMate, as if everyone were free, as if you were always seeing only the Christ they are. Nothing else really matters. If you REALLY see someone, they will transform right before your eyes. If there is still anything to "work out" on the level of ego, it will fall into place, guided easily by the Law of Resonance elicited by your loving regard.
As people come before you, dear ones, please love them purely and practice inclusiveness. Give them Me in a personal relationship, and then let Love do its work. The two things required are giving and God.

Deben hacer esto unos por otros, como si todos fueran su alma gemela, como si todos fueran libres, como si vieran siempre solamente el Cristo que ellos son. Nada más tiene importancia verdaderamente. Si ven REALMENTE a alguien, ese alguien se transformará antes sus mismos ojos. Si todavía hay algo que "arreglar" a nivel del ego, todo asumirá su lugar guiado por la Ley de la Resonancia, provocado por su amorosa consideración.
A medida que la gente venga a ustedes, queridos míos, por favor ámenlos puramente y practiquen la inclusividad. Ofrézcanme a ellos en una relación personal, y luego permitan que el Amor realize su trabajo. Las dos cosas requeridas son el dar y Dios.
From The Messages from God
2012-05-14 | Circle of Light www.circleoflight.net

torsdag 3 maj 2012

In laws and Out laws

Secrets of Blissful Relationships


from Michael Webb, the web's #1 relationship author and expert


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In-laws or Out-laws?
by Michael Webb



Love them or hate them, nearly every married person interacts with
his or her in-laws on a regular basis.

In-laws have the potential to destroy a perfectly blissful
relationship if we let them. They also have the ability to save
marriages when the road gets rocky if we seek their advice. How we
deal with our extended families is a core element in our quest for
a blissful relationship.

All men and women should realize that when they get married, they
have created a new family. Your new husband or wife becomes your
new family. Everyone else is part of the "extended" family --
which means they should not be as close to you as your spouse.
Your mom, dad, sisters and brothers lose their priority and
importance in your life. If you are not ready to place them below
your mate, then you probably aren't ready to get married.

This is a very difficult concept for many parents to embrace.
After all, they spend twenty or so years being the number one
person in their child's eye. They sacrificed so much to bring
their child to this point in their life. But hopefully, they have
reared their offspring to become adults, not to stay as children.
Many men and women have to respectfully, but forcefully let their
parents know that they are all grown up and that their husband/wife
is now their number one priority and center of their life.

Here are some tips on dealing with in-laws.

* When you are first married, DO NOT live with in-laws (unless it
is your country's custom). If you cannot afford a place of your
own, then why are you getting married now? I can't emphasize this
point strongly enough.

* Make a rule that your in-laws cannot just "drop by" the first
year or more of your marriage. Better yet, live at least an hour
or two away from them so you can work on building your own
relationship instead of spending so much time with other family
members.

* If you spend more time each week talking with your parents (in
person or on the phone) than you do with your spouse, then you know
something needs tweaking in your relationship.

* If you and your mate argue or fight, resist the temptation to run
home to your parents. You need to learn to solve the problems in
your relationship and running away prolongs the solution. Telling
your parents about all your marital problems makes it difficult for
them to support your marriage.

* If you need advice on a problem you are having in your
relationship, every once in a while talk it over with your in-laws.
They will be honored that you came to them for advice and they
probably have some good insight into your mate that you could never
get from your own parents.

* Remember that every time you bad mouth your in-laws in front of
your mate, you are tearing up someone they love.

* Show your in-laws kindness even if they are unkind to you.
"Turning the other cheek" will earn you so much respect from your
mate and your in-laws.

* You do not have to visit your in-laws every time your spouse goes
to visit his family. If they get offended, they need to grow up.

* Send notes and cards to your in-laws from time to time. Sign
your name only so they know it is just from you.

* Do not let your parents or your in-laws pressure you into having
"grandchildren for them." If and when you have children is NONE OF
THEIR BUSINESS. If you need them to "get off your back" tell them
that having children is a private matter between you and your
spouse and that you will let them know when you are expecting.

* If your parents or in-laws are rude, nasty, hateful and negative,
you do not have to visit them. You can't choose your parents but
you can choose your family. Just because someone gave birth to you
does not give her any right to ruin your day. Don't feel guilty
for not visiting extended family that is abusive or demeaning to
you, your spouse or children.

* Come up with a good game plan for holidays. (see my article -
Decision Time)

* If you are not already engaged, try to spend as much time with
the in-laws as possible, especially if your sweetheart is close to
his or her family. You need to know what you are getting into.

* Another benefit of getting to know your potential mate's parents
is to see what type of person he or she will potentially become in
10, 20 or 30 years. Our parents do pass on their genes to us and
like it or not, we often "become like our mother/father."

One final bit of advice for you and your in-laws. Love them, like
them or simply respect them. There is no room in a blissful
relationship for hate.




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onsdag 2 maj 2012

Choosing again

On this day of your life, Heike, I believe God wants you to know...

...that you can remain in your present idea about yourself,
or you can choose again. I like the idea of choosing again.
 
Glorify who you are today, do not condemn who you
were yesterday, and dream of who you can be tomorrow.
 
You will not have to think for more than a second to 
know exactly why you just read this...

Your friend
Neale

Neale Donald Walsh

torsdag 29 mars 2012

Stillness precedes order

28 March 2012



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torsdag 8 mars 2012

Mitt CV

CV
Heike Kunkel




Arbetslivserfarenhet
Heike Kunkel
Fornhöjdsvägen 68, 152 58 Södertälje


Arbetslivserfarenhet

* Textilarbetare, Textilhuset, Södertälje Kommun, 2010 – 2011
Gör olika handarbeten som senare säljs i Torekällbergets Hantverksbutik

* Mystery Shopper, Daymaker, 2010 - pågående
Utför anonyma kundbesök för att testa företags service och bemötande, rapporterar skriftligt till Daymaker efter utfört uppdrag

* Kock, Almviks gård, 1994 – 2000
Vegetarisk matlagning till de boende och personalen på boendet

* Översättare, ISCON, 1989 - 1994
Översättning av inspelade texter som jag överförde till datorfiler. Översatte från engelska till tyska

* Barnskötare, ISCON, 1987 – 1989
Dagisverksamhet för små barn

* Kock, ISCON, 1984 – 1987
Lagade vegetarisk mat för ca 30 personer

* Försäljare, ISCON, 1979 – 1984
Sålde ljus, rökelse och musik

* Barnskötare, Kinderheim Diemerstein, 1977 -1978
Barnskötare på barnhem

* Kontorsarbetare, Firma Pfaff, 1973 – 1974
Arbetade som sekreterare och med handräckning för tjänstemännen







Utbildning
* Stockholms universitet, 2003 – 2009
Waldorfpedagogik, hälsopedagogik, dynamisk pedagogik och det professionella samtalet

* Långbro folkhögskola, Älvsjö, Studieförberedande utbildning, 2002 - 2003

* Gymnasial utbildning,Komvux, 2000 – 2002
Studerade för allmän behörighet till högskola


Datakunskaper

Microsoft Office

Språk
* Tyska - modersmål
* Engelska - Mycket goda kunskaper
* Svenska – Goda kunksaper


Personligt

Jag är en god lyssnare med gott tålamod och god inlevelseförmåga. Jag beskrivs av andra som en pålitlig, punktlig och ärlig person

Referenser
Lämnas gärna på begäran.

·        Textilarbetare, Textilhuset, Södertälje Kommun, 2010 – 2011
Gör olika handarbeten som senare säljs i Torekällbergets Hantverksbutik

·        Mystery Shopper, Daymaker, 2010 - pågående
Utför anonyma kundbesök för att testa företags service och bemötande, rapporterar skriftligt till Daymaker efter utfört uppdrag

·        Kock, Almviks gård, 1994 – 2000
Vegetarisk matlagning till de boende och personalen på boendet

·        Översättare,  ISCON, 1989 - 1994
Översättning av  inspelade texter som jag överförde till datorfiler. Översatte från engelska till tyska

·        Barnskötare, ISCON, 1987 – 1989
Dagisverksamhet för små barn

·        Kock, ISCON, 1984 – 1987
Lagade vegetarisk mat för ca 30 personer

·        Försäljare, ISCON, 1979 – 1984
Sålde ljus, rökelse och musik

·         Barnskötare, Kinderheim Diemerstein, 1977 -1978
Barnskötare på barnhem

·        Kontorsarbetare, Firma Pfaff, 1973 – 1974
Arbetade som sekreterare och med handräckning för tjänstemännen







Utbildning
·        Stockholms universitet, 2003 – 2009
Waldorfpedagogik, hälsopedagogik, dynamisk pedagogik och det professionella samtalet

·        Långbro folkhögskola, Älvsjö, Studieförberedande utbildning, 2002 - 2003

·                  Gymnasial utbildning,Komvux, 2000 – 2002
Studerade för allmän behörighet till högskola


Datakunskaper

Microsoft Office

Språk
·        Tyska - modersmål
·        Engelska -  Mycket goda kunskaper
·        Svenska – Goda kunksaper


Personligt

Jag är en god lyssnare med gott tålamod och god inlevelseförmåga.  Jag beskrivs av andra som en pålitlig, punktlig och ärlig person

Referenser
Lämnas gärna på begäran.

Männer, Frauen und Sexualität

Männer, Frauen und Sexualität

Männer sind im allgemeinen ziemlich stolz auf ihre Geschlechtsorgane und ihre Sexualität. Wir Frauen denken, wir müssten alles verändern. Die Brüste muss man vergröβern. Die Haare am Körper müssen abrasiert werden. Unsere Gesichter werden durch Makeup sosehr verändert, dass man kaum noch sehen kann wie wir eigentlich aussehen. Wir könnten genausogut eine Maske aufsetzen. Ist es ein Wunder, dass Männer mehr an Sexualität interessiert sind als Frauen? Sie können ja stolz auf ihren Körper und ihre Sexualität sein. Sie müssen sich nicht groβartig verändern, wenn sie dies nicht möchten. Selbstverständlich  können sie sich  rasieren, wenn sie das möchten. Der Zwang, sich verändern zu müssen, liegt meist bei uns Frauen. Das so viele Frauen und vor allem junge Mädchen groβe psychische Probleme haben, ist wohl nicht sehr verwunderlich. Eigentlich fällt es mir sehr schwer über diese Thematik zu schreiben. Wir Frauen schämen uns schlieβlich für unsere Sexualität.